I think i love my wife12/16/2023 ![]() He said because it was soft and squishy and would never be like that again. ![]() I'm 4w postpartum right now and even when I was feeling my most self conscious at 1 week postpartum my husband let me know how much he loved my tummy. The fact that you deleted Instagram would make me feel like you meant what you said and had no interest or intention of doing anything that would ever hurt her. I wish you both the best and hope that this will pass quickly. I’ve found in my 27 year marriage that sometimes communication breaks down and it’s hard to hear things, but when we’ve sat down and wrote a letter to each other, it gives us time to read it, process it and often times makes it easier to see the other persons heart. Make it a love letter and fill it with all of the things you feel about her, all the good qualities she has and how you love her body even more because it has bore your children. If she has a hard time talking about it, or to you right now, write her a letter. Try and be gentle with her and love her where she is. It is so hard to be in those emotions and not feel good about your body, or compare it to others. Postpartum emotions can run deep, for months or years after birth. I wish I could make her understand how I truly feel about her beautiful body but whatever I say comes out as an attempt to damage control. I didn’t want to make it awkward so I said sorry I didn’t see you and ran to the bathroom there I broke down crying in the shower. She was naked and when she saw me it was like she saw the grim reaper and hastily covered her midsection with a pillow. Yesterday she didn’t see me walking in the bedroom. I haven’t seen my wife naked since and she barely let me kiss her before going to work. I told her that I was just being nice and encouraging my co-worker but she wouldn’t have it. She showed me then that I have commented on this co-workers abs. About 3 weeks ago I found her crying in bed I asked her why and she didn’t want to tell me first. My wife gave birth to our daughters 6 months ago. I automatically like all pictures by my co-workers, sometimes I don’t even look at the content. My co-worker (f30) has started a fitness journey that she shares on instagram. I like and comment on pictures sometimes just to be nice. I don’t find fitness more or less attractive. Very important to mention that I love my wife and her body.
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